At Garden State Gay Socials, we are committed to creating a safe, respectful, and enjoyable environment for all members. By participating in our events and utilizing our platform, you agree to adhere to the following Code of Conduct:

1. Respectful Engagement

• No Pressure for Personal Information: At no time shall any person use our platform or events to pressure others for personal contact information for the purpose of hookups. Our community is focused on facilitating long-term friendships, networking, and meaningful connections built on mutual trust.

• Integrity and Respect: This group is not a hookup app like Grindr. We prioritize respect for all individuals and expect each member to uphold this standard.

2. Safety and Privacy

• No Stalking or Harassment: Under no circumstances shall any member directly or indirectly stalk or harass another member, whether in person or electronically. We value everyone’s right to feel safe and respected within our community.

3. Communication Guidelines

• Respectful Discourse: All members should communicate with consideration and respect. Use inclusive language, avoid derogatory comments, and maintain a constructive tone during discussions.

• Active Listening: Show genuine interest in the ideas of others. Listen actively and do not interrupt when someone else is speaking.

• Expressing Disagreements: Disagreements are natural; approach them with an open mind. Use "I" statements to express your opinions and avoid personal attacks.

• Non-Verbal Communication: Be mindful of body language, facial expressions, and gestures, ensuring they communicate openness and respect.

• Addressing Conflict: If conflicts arise, attempt to resolve them privately with the involved individuals. Seek assistance from moderators if necessary.

4. Confidentiality

• Respecting Privacy: Members must respect each other's privacy and confidentiality. Do not share others' personal information or experiences without their consent. This confidentiality extends beyond group events and discussions.

• Photography and Videography: Please note that while we respect confidentiality, we reserve the right to take photographs and/or videos during events for promotional purposes. If you do not wish to have your image used, please notify us in writing prior to the event.

5. Responsible Behavior

• Alcohol Consumption: If alcohol is consumed at events, do so responsibly. Members are accountable for their own actions related to alcohol consumption.

• Substance Use: The use of illegal drugs is strictly prohibited at all Garden State Gay Socials events. Members found using or in possession of illegal substances will face immediate removal.

• Zero Tolerance for Intoxication: Members must not attend events in an overly intoxicated state. Any individual deemed overly drunk will be asked to leave, as they may pose a risk to their own safety and the safety of others.

• Dress Code: Attendees must arrive fully clothed and present themselves neatly, reflecting the professionalism and respect that our community embodies.

• No Theft or Fraud: Theft, pickpocketing, or any form of dishonest behavior will not be tolerated. Members who engage in such actions will be reported to appropriate authorities and banned from participating in future events.

6. No Violence

• Zero Tolerance for Violence: Any form of violence, intimidation, or aggressive behavior will not be tolerated. This includes verbal abuse, physical altercations, and destructive actions.

7. General Policies

• Harassment and Discrimination: Harassment or discrimination of any kind is strictly prohibited. This includes derogatory comments based on sexual orientation, gender identity, race, ethnicity, disability, or any other characteristic protected by law.

• Reporting Misconduct: If you witness or experience any violations of this Code of Conduct, you may report it to our administration team privately and anonymously. We take all reports seriously and will handle them confidentially.

• Consequences of Violations: Violations may result in temporary or permanent removal from our community, depending on the severity of the offense.

• Participation at Your Own Risk: Members participate in events at their own risk. The organization is not liable for personal injury or loss during events.

8. Feedback and Improvement

• Constructive feedback is welcomed: We encourage members to provide constructive feedback on how to improve our events and community experiences. Your input is valuable in shaping an inclusive and respectful environment.

9. Emergency Procedures

• Emergency Contacts and Procedures: In case of emergency, please familiarize yourself with the nearest exits and emergency contacts available during an event. If you feel unsafe at any time, please inform event organizers or designated safety personnel immediately.

10. Acknowledgment

By participating in Garden State Gay Socials, you acknowledge that you have read, understood, and agree to abide by this Code of Conduct. Together, we can foster a welcoming and supportive environment for all.

For any questions or concerns regarding this Code of Conduct, please reach out to our administration team. Thank you for being a valued member of Garden State Gay Socials!